National Carers Week

Ms THOMPSON (Davenport) (15:36): This National Carers Week I, too, would like to contribute to this important conversation and recognise remarkable individuals who dedicate their time, energy and love to care for others. As others have mentioned, it is so great to see so many of you here in our gallery today. I do not think we have ever seen such a kind, selfless group of people in our gallery, like a big warm hug over there. I am looking forward to meeting some of you at the afternoon tea.

National Carers Week is a time to recognise, celebrate and raise awareness for the over three million Australians who provide unpaid carers support to a family member or friend. These carers step up for those living with disabilities, mental health, chronic illness, terminal illness, issues related to alcohol or drug use or for the frail and aged. In South Australia alone, we have 245,000 carers. They are not just statistics. They are parents, grandparents, partners, siblings, friends, neighbours and, as we have heard from the member for Adelaide, often very young children. Some carers gradually take on more responsibilities, while others are thrust into the role overnight due to accidents or sudden illness that can change their lives in an instant.

Those of you in the gallery today would know better than anybody that caring for a loved one can be deeply rewarding but it also comes with immense challenges. Carers often sacrifice their own wellbeing, setting aside their needs to care for others. Without the right support, the demands for caregiving can become overwhelming, impacting not just a carer's physical and mental health but also their ability to work, to participate in family life and to engage in social and community activities. It is a truly selfless task, but research shows that carers are more likely to experience a range of health and socio-economic difficulties compared to others. Despite those challenges, most carers will tell you that they are doing okay, even when they are struggling. There is often a sense of guilt or shame in expressing their own needs.

That is why today I encourage everyone to reach out to the carers in your lives, show them your appreciation as you ask how you can support them. Even small gestures, many of which we heard listed by the member for Adelaide, like offering to help with errands, taking people for a walk or simply listening can make a huge difference.

I would like to take a moment to personally acknowledge a few of the carers in my own community. These individuals go above and beyond for their loved ones, often without the recognition that they deserve. Peter and Elizabeth from Aberfoyle Park are tireless carers for Peter's brother Gordon. Although Gordon does not live with them, Peter and Elizabeth never stop advocating for him. They do this work quietly, without fanfare, and they exemplify what it means to be unwavering in your love and dedication. Meredith, also from Aberfoyle Park, cares for her husband full-time despite facing health challenges of her own. She has often had to put his needs before hers, embodying strength and resilience in the face of adversity.

Sandy from Flagstaff Hill cares for her husband and also has great interest in her local community. Her time for herself is limited as she cannot leave him for long periods of time. She balances her responsibilities with grace, but I know that her sacrifices prevent her from being involved in other community activities that she would love to take part in.

Finally, I would like to acknowledge Thomas from Aberfoyle Park, who has been caring for his wife who is currently in hospital. Though fortunate to have a supportive family, he still shoulders the full-time responsibility of care at a time in life that many would consider their well-earned retirement.

These are just a few of the thousands of carers in our communities, each with their own unique stories. To all carers, I want you to know that I see you, I see your strength and I see the love and dedication that you show every day, even when it feels like no-one is watching.

This conversation is also deeply personal for me. In 2020 I lost my mother to motor neurone disease. Throughout her illness my stepfather, Phil, was her primary carer. He was there every day ensuring her comfort and dignity during such a challenging time, putting on a brave face and I know at times pretending he and mum were both fine just so the rest of us would not be burdened. His selflessness, patience and devotion will stay with me forever. Like so many carers, Phil never sought recognition for his role, but I want to take this opportunity to honour his immense contribution as well as the millions of others who quietly provide the same unwavering support across Australia.

This week I hope that every carer feels the love and gratitude that flows to them from all corners of our communities. You are seen, you are appreciated, you are not alone. There are support services available like Carers Gateway, Carers SA, DHS and Carer and Community SA, along with all of those groups that the member for Adelaide mentioned that I know are here today. Thank you so much for everything you do. I look forward to chatting at the afternoon tea.